USEFUL LIFE SKILLS: June 2010

Tuesday, 29 June 2010

BE SINCERE

Sincerity is a matter of intent and hard to prove.We can achieve our goals by having a sincere desire to help others.

Monday, 28 June 2010

BE SMILE

A smile costs nothing ,but it creats much

It enriches those who receive it without impoverishing

those who give it.

It happens in a flash, and the memory of it may last forever.

None are so rich that they can get along without it,and

none so poor that they cannot be richer for its benefits.

It creates happiness in the home ,fosters goodwill in a

business, and is the countersign of friends.

It is rest to the weary,daylight to the discouraged,

sunshine to the sad ,and nature's best antidote for trouble.

yet it can not be begged,bought,borrowed,or stolen for it

is something that is worth nothing to anyone until it is

given away

In the course of the day,some of your acquaintances may be too tired to give you a smile.Give them one of yours.

Nobody needs a smile so much as those who have none left to give.

NEVER FEEL INFERIOR

No one can make you feel inferior without your permission.

..--ELEANOR ROOSEVELT

Saturday, 26 June 2010

Self discipline does not kill joy but builds it.You see people with talent and ability and yet they are unsuccessful.They are frustrated and the same behaviour pattern affects their business ,their relationships with others.They are dissatisfied and blame it on luck without realizing that many problems are caused by lack of discipline.

ASSOCIATE WITH PEOPLE OF HIGH MORAL CHARACTER

Associate yourself with people of good quality if you esteem your reputation,for it is better to be alone than to be in bad company.

..--GEORGE WASHINGTON

Friday, 25 June 2010

REMEDY FOR WEAKNESS

The remedy for weakness is not brooding over weakness,but thinking of strength.Teach men of the strength that is already with in them

..--SWAMI VIVEKANANDA

STRONG MIND

1.A strong mind always remains calm even in adversities.

2.It never succumbs to temptations,and develops tremendous courage to say 'NO' to immoral thoughts and actions.

3.It always remains free from prejudice ,suspicion, and jealousy.

4.Clarity of thinking makes it possible to take right decisions and come to right judgements.

5.Such a mind will never indulge in wrong actions,prompted by evil emotions,such as desire ,anger,greed ,fear,hatred,etc.,but will be always guided by serious,deep and right thinking.

6.Positive thinking ,concentration,fearlessness,adventurous, and self confidence are the vital qualities of a strong mind.

Thursday, 24 June 2010

GREAT LESSON

One of the greatest lessons I have learned in my life is to pay as much attention to the means of work as to it's end ...I have been always learning great lessons from that one principle,and it appears to me that all the secret of success is there; to pay as much attention to the means as to the end..

..--swami vivekananda

OBEDIENCE

Learn obedience first.Among these western nations,with such a high spirit of independence ,the spirit of obedience is equally strong..We are all of us self important,which never produces any work.Great enterprise,boundless courage,tremendous energy,and above all,perfect obedience-these are the only traits that lead to individual and national regeneration .These traits are altogether lacking in us..

..--SWAMI VIVEKANANDA

THE SCRET OF RELIGION

THE SECRET OF RELIGION LIES NOT IN THEORIES BUT IN PRACTICE .tO BE GOOD AND DO GOOD-THET IS THE WHOLE OF RELIGION.nOT HE THET CRIETH 'LORD',LORD,,,BUT HE THAT DOETH THE WILL OF THE FATHER..

Tuesday, 22 June 2010

GREAT SUTHRA OF SWAMI VIVEKANANDA

It is fear alone that is death.You have to go beyond all fear.So from this day,be fearless.Off at once ,to lay down your life for your own liberation and for the good of others.What good is it carrying along a load of bones and flesh

COOL SUTHRAS FOR GREAT SUCCESS

Three things are necessary to make every man great,every nation great;

1..Conviction of the powers of goodness.

2..Absence of jealosy and suspicion.

3..Helping all who are trying to be and do good.

..--SWAMI VIVEKANANDA

CONSTANT PRACTICE

We can overcome the difficulty by constant practice. We must learn that nothing can happen to us,unless we make ourselves susceptible to it.

..--SWAMI VIVEKANANDA

GROW FROM INSIDE

You have to grow from inside out.None can teach you,none can make youspiritual.There is no other teacher but your own soul.

..--SWAMI VIVEKANANDA

HUMANITY

All the great prophets,saints and seers of the world-what did they do?In one span of life ,they lived the whole life of humanity,traversed the whole length of time that it takes ordinary humanity to come to perfection. In one life ,they perfect themselves,they have no thought for anything else ,never live a moment for any other idea ,and thus the way is shortened for them .This is what is meant by concentration,intensifying the power of assimilation ,thus shortening the time..

..--SWAMI VIVEKANANDA